Years ago, a friend and I were talking in general about sex. In the course of our conversation, the topic of oral sex came up. I hear from husbands who wish their wives were more interested in incorporating oral play into their sexual intimacy. In some cases I think it is. First of all, if a woman has experienced past sexual abuse, particular as a child, and oral sex was part of that abuse, I think it is reasonable that it may be incredibly difficult to include oral sex in the current context of her marital intimacy. When a woman marries, even if she has suffered past sexual abuse, she is agreeing that sexual intercourse will be part of her marriage.
My wife[31f] won't give me[33m] oral anymore. Don't know what to do. : relationships
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14 Women Explain Why They Stopped Giving Blowjobs After They Got Married
I am a year-old married woman. My husband of 18 years is 22 years my senior. I credit my husband for giving me a good life and helping me pursue goals. But my husband is a type-A professional, and that has played out in the bedroom. He has always been disinterested in my pleasure.
I was torturing myself with this because I wanted to be a good girlfriend, but it would take him 45 minutes to cum and then my jaw would be sore all the next day. Neither of us do oral. I have no interest in this. It scares me a bit, honestly. The BJs tapered off as the resentment towards my husband began to grow.